More information websites
- www.livelifesafe.org.uk Advice on keeping safe from the Suzy Lamplugh Trust
- www.crimestoppers-uk.org Advice and information from Crimestoppers
- www.nspcc.org.uk The national charity for stopping all kinds of child abuse
Protection from Violence and Abuse
Asking for it?
You have the right to protection from violence and abuse. People make excuses for violence:
- It didn't mean anything
- Argument got out of hand
- From a different gang
- Made you very angry
- They talked back
None of these make any difference. If you, or anyone else, is being attacked or abused, you should get help. Even if the problem is very difficult, there are people who can help you sort it out.
If you are being attacked
- Get as much attention as you can. Scream and shout, let off a personal alarm, whatever it takes.
- If possible, RUN. Head towards a lighted place and get inside.
- When possible, call 999 and ask for police, or an abulance if you are badly hurt
Related topics: In an emergency, Emergencies
Rape/Sexual assault
Both men and women can be raped and sexually assaulted. Most rapes are carried out by someone know to you. It could happen on a first date or in an established relationship. Whether or not to report the offence can be a difficult decision. The Oxford Sexual Abuse and Rape Crisis Line will listen to anything you have to say in confidence.
Take action: Call the Oxford Sexual Abuse and Rape Crisis Line on freephone 0800 783 6294 / 01865 726295.
Related topics: In an emergency, Personal Safety, Domestic Violence
Bullying
Bullying can involve name-calling, physical attacks, being ignored or left out, having your possessions messed with, being ridiculed and other forms of harassment. No one has the right to hurt another person. If you are being bullied here’s what to do:
- Know that the bullying is not your fault. The bully needs to change, not you.
- Tell an adult you trust. If they do nothing, tell someone else. Keep telling until someone pays attention.
- Don’t fight back unless you absolutely have to.
Related topics: Bullying, Being Bullied?
Abuse
Young people from all kinds of homes and all kinds of families may be abused, usually by people they know.
Childline and NSPCC can help you work out who to tell and put you in touch with helpful organisations. You can ring them free from any phone, even a call box. Whatever you tell them will be kept confidential.
Related topics: Protection from Abuse , Abuse
